The Fear

Being a bottom, what a joy. Sure it feels amazing to receive those massive toys and fists but damn it also requires a lot of commitment. It's a lot of work. So first of all, let’s applaud all the bottoms out there!

In the past, “being clean” has been at the root of my anxiety when it comes to fisting. It’s kept me from attending a lot of events. I imagine being around a bunch of people and then a pocket of shit empties out from my bowels. What a nightmare that would be. 

From talking to a lot of fisters, we’ve all had that thought. For that reason, we prepare before we fist. I’ll come back to what works for me later but I just want to emphasize that when it comes to fisting, shit happens. It usually doesn’t because of the preparation we do but when you are filling someone’s rectum and colon with your hands and arms, you can’t be shocked if you encounter shit. To be an asshole about it to a bottom is enough to be considered a no-good top. The etiquette if this happens is to inform your bottom that they might need a touch up.

 

Talking about shit happening. One time I was on Asspig in Calgary and damn I was so horny. I decided to meet this gentleman that lived an hour away. To save time, I did the strict minimum for cleaning out. It was a mistake. I basically took a shit on his hand. He was nice about it but I decided that night that faith was not going to be the thing that prevented this situation from happening in the future. I’m telling you this story to make a point. Shit did happen, and he was nice about it. 

So how do I prepare? It’s a little different every time. First of all, what am I doing? Am I riding toys alone? Am I doing regular fucking with someone I know? Then I’m probably doing the minimum. To me, that means sitting on my hellotushy and swallowing a bunch of water in there and pushing it out. Giving it a good rinse in other words. I never play in the morning. For me, that’s when my intestinal tract fulfills its main purpose. When that’s done, only then do I start becoming a hole to fill. 

If the plan is fisting, then there’s a lot more work to do. The plan is to empty and rinse my bowels to the max. I really want to get above the sigmoid bend. 

The equipment I use is an ergoflow silicone travel kit. It doesn’t require you to change the plumbing. If you happen to travel a lot it’s a breeze to pass through security and will work with most showers. It has a constant gentle stream. You don’t want to blow your insides out with too much pressure. Make sure the water is warm. I heard that using cold water can make your clean out quicker because it makes your gut cramp but I’m going for a gentle experience so I try to match the water to my body temperature. 

The most efficient position for cleaning out is laying on your left side in the shower. Try to get comfortable and keep your hole up. Really try to relax and place the hose tip against your hole. No need to even insert it. Just let the water do its things. That’ll get the stuff that’s right there. Do that a couple of times. Now it’s time to take in as much water as possible. Try to get to 10 seconds of water intake and try to hold it in. Do gentle shakes of the body and let go. It’s gonna be a total mess in there now. You can also get on your knees and push out. A lot of trapped water might come out that way. Continue doing this back and forth. You’ll have to repeat this until the water runs clear. I then turn the water to hot and shower normally.

Then I come out and jump around trying to use gravity to my advantage. About half an hour later I repeat the whole process again and after I’ve done this twice and the water runs clear, I’m confident I’ve done my best to prepare. 

Another good thing to do when you start playing with someone and you’re the top is to inform your bottom immediately if they did a good job at cleaning out. It sure helps me relax when a top says that. It gives me that extra boost to just let go and enjoy the ride.

Again, you can only do your best. We’re all fisters and don’t let the fear of shit stop you from doing what you want to do. 

Have FFun!

Marc (@FFriendlyGuy1 on Twitter)